Tuesday, July 28, 2009
I don't know what to do
I'm at a loss. As I type this my cheeks are stained with tears. All day long CJ and Brian have been fighting. They yell, scream, hit, kick, anything to cause the other pain. I'm angry and sad. I don't know what to do. They have been just getting worse and more aggressive with each other. I have tried to separate them. As soon as they're back together, it starts all over. They are fighting just for the sake of fighting. I'm at my wits end. I'm trying so hard not to show anger towards them. I'm trying so hard not to yell. As soon as I walk away from them they just start all over again. I can't keep them permanently separated. I don't know what to do. I feel like a failure.
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You are NOT I repeat NOT a failure! You have two great kids...they just seem to get each other's goose 24 hours a day....you do such a great job..I know it's hard to say but they WILL grow out of it. I know they love each other though...I love their little conversations I occasionally overheard. "Hi Siiiiiiss" "Oh hi Bian" so cute. If they are making you insanely nuts called star and leave one behind for a while...go to Mc Donalds or something with one and play for a while...then next time take the other instead. Worth a shot??
Please don't think of yourself as a failure. They are kids and are acting out for some reason. I like Suzi's idea. Have a personal play date with each of the kids. Get some one the kids enjoy to babysit whom ever is left at home. Then take one at a time some where special. There will be good days and bad days and some times it builds up a few days in advance. I see the trend in my kids. I wish I was there to help. I love you sis and you are a great mom.
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